Hello,
So, sorry if this isn't exactly your typical story although it is for me. I'm curious if this is how it's happened with others or if I'm alone, but I'll post and see if others post stories like it in the blog.
I'm pretty much average in every way you could imagine. I'm a boring 40 something...if you bumped into me, I look like everyone else. Button down and slacks Monday through Friday, a polo and jeans on the weekends. I take care of my yard. I've been married for about 15 years...we have a couple kids.
I came to the realization the other day that I think I've been low-key trained by my wife.
It started several years ago when we were looking over porn to watch together for the first time. She's scrolling and doing the old "Oh, what to watch, what to watch" bit for about 15 seconds. Finally, she makes a beeline straight for the "Fuck My Wife" stuff.
She turned it on and absolutely sucked me dry after only watching it for a couple minutes. What do you know, I'm turned on by my wife being turned on by this kind of thing.
Fast forward some time later, we're having dinner with friends. My friend makes the old "Tonto Goldstein" joke...as soon as he gets to the part where a comically large dick is discussed, she's jerking me off over my slacks under the table.
Fast forward a short time after that..it turns out she's got a pretty large dildo that she's been keeping from me...she wants to put on a show.
Let me tell you, I've fucked my wife a lot, and her face while she's getting fucked is always just heavenly. But this was another level. Taking in something so girthy really seemed to unlock something primal in her. I've never seen her eyes look so hot (or glazed over, frankly).
Fast forward to Friday...two days ago. She's backing up on me after the kids go away for the weekend. Reminding me of all these things. Like Pavlov's Crank, she can tell I'm ready to go. And at that point, she lays it on me.
A friend of hers from work is huge, she wants to fuck him, she wants me to watch (and take part at times).
Now, my blood was pumping so hard that she probably could have convinced me to murder someone at that point, so I said OK. And I spent the next half hour watching her get absolutely fucked stupid by this young man.
After they took a water break, my wife said that she ultimately wanted to be spit roasted...and I was happy to oblige.
I've never experienced a rush like the joy I felt from my wife being so pleased so much.
Only reason I share this story...if you would have talked to me 10 years ago about this, I don't think I would have believed I could have taken part in something like this.
Part of me thinks that this may have been planned all along, and that she was playing the long game of conditioning me into a yes on these fantasies of hers (and eventually, ours). At this point, that doesn't even bother me.
But if you're in a situation where multiple parties are involved after years of monogamy...I'd say go for it.
TheJonses
