Hello,
I am so excited to see some changes going on with my wife and I concerning our sex life. Our sex life had been very lame for a long time due to my wife just not having the desire. It took me a long time to figure this out and now have been doing things to help boost our sex life and bring us closer together.
Recently, we have watched porn videos online together for the first time and my wife really liked it. She even put on her glasses so she could see what was going on and kept asking me to turn it up so she could hear. Also, even though she says she doesn't want me to be dominant over her, she likes for me to tell her what to do and it seems the more "forecfull" I am with her, the more she likes it.
For example, she usually won't do oral on me unless I ask and even then, maybe.
But recently, I just told her to go down on me and suck me. She went right for it. While she was sucking me, I usually run my hands through her hair but this time with more force and also gently shoving her head down on my cock. I was surprised to see how the responded to this, she really got into it even though she won't admit that's what she likes.
For the first time, I felt like she was my hot little "slut" servicing me. Things that she says she doesn't like, she will do if I just do it to her and she gets into it. I love licking her ass but I just have to do it and when I do, she starts pushing herself on me. When I go down on her and lick her pussy, I get her to orgasm but just right before, I now grab her hand and put it on the back of me head. This causes her to pull me into her so hard that I can tell she is just using my face to cum all over at that moment.
She orgasms so hard that way.
Well, what does this have to do with hotwifing and cuckolding, well, that's what I eventually want us to do. I want to share her with other men. So one thing I have just done for the first time for her is set up a "girls night out" for her with her friends and sister.
They are going out shopping, dinner and then to a bar to watch a band and dance. I'll be home with the kids. This bar is a place we have been before with some friends and I'll tell you, it is mostly black men and white women. I loved being there and seeing all the black men dancing with the white women, trying to pick them up. Now, my wife had suggested they go there for thier "girls-night-out". I told her the last time we made love, that she had my permission to loosen up, drink a little, and if a man asked her to dance,......dance with him if she thought he was attractive.
Also, I told her she had my permission to flirt or let a guy flirt with her if she wanted. I wanted her to feel like a desireable woman again by having another man "hit" on her. Also, I told my sister-in-law that since she was so good at hooking people up, to get some guy or guys to dance with my wife and show her a good time. Her response was that I was such a "good hubby" and she wished her husband was that understanding.
I know that problably nothing really exciting will happen but I am hoping it is a good start to get my wife more open to the fact that she can have fun with other men with my approval and encouragement. This is all part of my plan to eventually intoduce the idea of us inviting another man into our sexual bed, preferably a black gentleman which I feel my wife has some secret attraction to.
It's gonna happen ...
Hugh - taga_6y7louge@tech-center.com
