Hello,
I have been reading this site for awhile after doing some general searches on the web and ran across it. My wife and I (both 34) have a somewhat open relationship, meaning we can talk about and do about anything as long as we are both involved. We have been married for 12 years and have always been kind of kinky, from role playing with each other, dressing up, we have a spandex, pantyhose and heels fetish we always incorporate into our sex, to a 3some with one of my friends before we got married, to a couple of 3somes with 2 different ladies about 6 or 7 years ago. But ever since my daughter came along, she has kind of brushed off any thought I have had about involving others in our sexual relationship, and I somewhat understand that, especially the first few years, just being protective.
Anyway, I always say pretty much what's on my mind and have always teased her about one of my fantasies, I would like to see her with someone with a big cock. Mine is very average or below average and I have always been a little embarrased about it. She has always taken it in stride and said she had no interest in any other men or their cocks and mine did the job just fine, but I always teased her with the big cock idea no matter what she said in a playful way.
A couple of months ago I was in an adult store browsing and came across the strap on section.... hmmm, I thought maybe she might get into it if I am the one giving it to her. So I picked out one that was probably about 7 or 8 inches long and 1 3/4 to 2 inches thick and smooth as she has said before she didn't like the ridges on the smaller dildos we had played with in the past. I brought it home and showed it to my wife, and her eyes about popped out.... lol. She was saying things like that is huge and way too big, I'm not sure if I could take that thing.
I said just give it a try and she agreed but said if she didn't like it, don't get disappointed. I said ok... so I strapped it on and pulled out a bottle of lube and began to slide it in slowly and I could feel her tense up and tighten, she made me stop for a second and said just hold it there and let me get used to it, so I did for awhile, then she said ok... and I began to slowly fuck her with about half of it, at first she was really tense, but you could see it in her face, she began to loosen up and I started going a little further. I asked her to picture another guy we saw on a movie the night before and she began biting her lip and I began asking her how 'he' felt in her and she said, 'oh not that good', with sarcasm and a smirk on her face.... then she reached over and grabbed her magic wand vibrator and put it on her clit while I fucked her and after only about 20 seconds of turning it on had a massive stronger orgasm than I had ever seen her have. I got so turned on, I had on some tight spandex underwear under the strap on and blew my load all in them when she was cumming.
So, that was a good experience and I got to live out my fantasy somewhat using a strap on, and she obviously enjoyed it as she has let me use it on her several times since all the while thinking of another guy penetrating her. Well this past weekend, we were playing around a little and she had dressed up in a tight spandex almost superhero outfit and I was telling her how hot she looked and I mentioned that she ought to dress up like that in a hotel room with me and we could invite a guy and he could jerk off to her and on her, she just playfully said, "why not invite a few?" .... and that's all that was said about it.... needless to say that threw me for a loop that she sort of openly said that in a playful but what seemed like a serious way.
OK, so with her seeming to be open to the idea of others, even if she was just playing around for my benefit and going with the flow, I am thinking about seriously setting it up. Just a guy or two to jerk off on her while she's nude. I know I have to talk with her more but every time I bring it up in bed she comes hard and looks almost embarrassed afterwards that it turned her on so much.
I've never seen her so wet and the more we think about it the more she smiles and looks me in the eye instead of looking away. If it does happen I will get pics and post back.
Seth-Helen
