Hello,
I have been married for almost 5 years now. My wife and I are young cuckolds but very mature for our age. We are both 29.
When we were just starting out and we were having sex, I would always bring up the fantasy of her getting fucked hard by a lover or master. I described how hard, slick, and big his cock would be as it slid inside. Sometimes he is using a condom and sometimes he is not.
She sometimes says she wants him to not so she can feel the cock naturally. Over the years, our stories got to be more elaborate ... sometimes she is getting gangbanged by 3 or more big studs ... filling each of her holes. I have gotten her to even call out common names of guys we know with her begging them to fuck her hard. She will even role play giving rim jobs. I even convinced her to take nude pictures of her fucking dildos pretending they are other men.
When I would bring up the topic for real with her, she would get really pissed off. She would say "I do not want to do it!". Please know that she was a virgin before me. I told her how much it would turn me on and that it might be an interesting experience for her. She would sometimes says to me, "What if I like it?" - but I don't think that means anything, more like a threat that I might lose her.
I would always respond, "I think I would have no problems as long as we share the experience together". However, no matter how I used to bring it up ... in whatever nice way I suggested it happening, she would get mad and become a cold fish. I even mentioned the idea of drinking to loosen her up but still nothing.
Then I realized the key which was "PATIENCE". I needed to go slow. I started by using dildos, porn movies which included MFM 3-some wife sharing movies and wife gang-bang movies while I was in bed with her, as well as role playing pretending that the dildo was a real lover for her. I would do this over and over again as we had before.
I would also ask her to do herself and show me exactly how she would like her stud to fuck her so I can give him instructions when/if we get the real guy. These tactics did cause her to loosen up considerably. Also I've taken her to strip clubs where most of the audience are of course horny guys.
She flirted with the guys while I watched and loved the attention she got there. Then finally one night (on her own) she even picked a handsome young guy up who really turned her on at a strip club and we ended up in a MFM 3-some with him after we left the club.
We both fucked her silly that night and after that night each time either of us brought up that night's MFM activities we would both get so hot we just couldn't wait to jump in bed and fuck each other silly.
Patience is the name of the game, and if she's intimidated just take it slow. You can run an ad in Adult Friend Finder's web site and see if she's receptive to this idea.
Or try taking her to a strip club and give her some freedom to flirt at will. You can assure her that if she doesn't like the experience you don't have to ever participate in anything like that again. Give her constant reassurances of how much you love her, and how badly you want for this thing to happen as you feel it will bring you both even closer together.
As for us we have had 2 more 3somes with me since then. One from an ad online and one from a strip club again. I am sending along some pictures of her that we sent to our second guy we met from the ad. I'll never forget that, we met for coffee, went home, they were on our sofa, and she couldn't wait to get his pants off and get started.
I took a few pics of them together and would love to post them but he didn't want his face online anywhere so I have these. BTW he is married but has his wife's permission and we hope to see him again but he lives far so we're looking again :)
- Brad
